Six Reasons Why Kids Choose To Smoke

Ever try to figure out why your kids do the things they do? Whether it's suddenly refusing to eat peas, not doing their homework or flushing LEGOS down the toilet, the mindset of our kids can be a mystery.

Which is why so many of us are flummoxed as to what goes on in the minds of our kids when they pick up a cigarette for the first time.

While not all encompassing, below are six possible reasons kids choose to smoke.
Peer Conformity - It has been said time and time again that peers have a greater influence on a child's behavior than parents. Kids are especially vulnerable in their teenage years when it becomes more important than ever to assimilate among their friends.

Contrary to popular belief, peers rarely put overt "pressure" on each other to smoke or engage in other harmful behavior.

Rather, the teen himself feels an internal desire to conform as a way to be part of the group.
This "peer conformity" often means changing attitudes, interests, and behaviors to "fit in.
" Unfortunately, we can't pick who our children associate with, but we can help them understand that just because a friend makes a choice doesn't mean it's a smart one.
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Popular Media - A 2005 study showed that 12 to 17-year-olds who viewed three or more R-rated movies per month were seven times more likely to start smoking than those that didn't watch R-rated movies. 2. Lack of Confidence - Children and teens lacking in self-confidence are far more susceptible to peer conformity and may be more likely to try smoking, feeling that the short-term benefits (fitting in) outweigh the long-term costs.

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Self-Medication - The tween and early teenage years are often the hardest for many kids, sometimes packing an emotional wallop. Cigarette, drug or alcohol use is often perceived to offer a quick and easily accessible way of dealing with tough times.

4. Boredom - Some kids have a tough time being alone or keeping themselves occupied. Unfortunately, they are prime candidates for substance abuse.

Smoking not only seems to offer a way to fill this internal void, it offers a way to create an instant common interest and bond among peers.
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Misinformation - This is by far the most preventable reason kids choose to smoke.
As mentioned, peers have a greater influence on your child's behaviors and interests than you do.

A friend's opinion claiming that cigarettes are harmless as long as you're able to quit may sway their behavior if left unchecked.